CHIVALRY.
Every Tuesday night during our meeting, one of our leaders teaches a short lesson on chivalry. Many of us were never taught how to properly treat the women in our lives, so this is your opportunity to learn how to be gallant, noble, and a true gentleman.
We are hearing back from wives, and they are giving us two thumbs up!!
Definition
Courteous behavior of men toward women to include bravery, honor, protection and gallantry.
Why Be Chivalrous?
1.
Obedience to God
Obedience to GodChivalry is not specifically mentioned in the Bible, but I am almost 100% positive God expects us to treat women chivalrously since He created women to be the fairer, weaker sex and He created us to be protectors and leaders.
2.Will Improve your female relationships
Will Improve your female relationships Try tonight’s chivalry exercise over the next week with your wife, girlfriend, date etc. and I can almost guarantee you will see a positive difference in her behavior toward you
3.Will give you a better shot at getting a second date with someone you would like to get to know better
Will give you a better shot at getting a second date with someone you would like to get to know better I hate telling you single guys this since the last thing I need is more competition, but it works. I have yet to fail to get a second date with a woman I am interested in. Treating a woman chivalrously stands out in our society and the vast majority of women want and appreciate it.
NOTE: If she doesn’t, I strongly suggest you look elsewhere for “her”.
Act 1 – Opening all Doors
This is the easiest one and you will have no excuses as to why you couldn’t do it. Get to each and every door first and hold it open for your lady, smiling while you do so. She will have to either walk thru it or stand there. Don’t give in, hold the door til she goes thru.
This pertains to the front door at home, car doors getting in and out, mall doors, restaurant doors, you name it. Every single door you come to, get there fist and open if for her.
And remember the smile, that is the icing.
You do not want her to think you are doing a task, you want her to know you are enjoying doing it for her.
As far as opening the car door to get out, you may have to ask her to wait and you will get the door. This one is a little tougher since habits have already been established.
STICK WITH IT, IT IS WORTH THE EFFORT!!!
